Online Counselor: How to Effectively Handle Stress
Stress is part of our daily life, and proper coping and handling improve critical thinking, problem-solving skills, and strong defenses. Everyday, we experience stress not only inside the home but also in school, workplace, community, and our overall environment. Stress can be positive or negative depending on how you perceive it, handle it, resolve it, and as manifested by signs and symptoms exhibited. Every person has his own ways of coping with stress, and some venture in meaningful and productive activities such as gardening, exercising, playing chess, or cleaning, while others drink alcohol, smoke, eat a lot, sleep for hours, or resort to drugs. So how do we deal with stress positively?
There are a lot of ways you can do in order to manage your stress such as praying or engaging in religious activities, developing optimistic attitude, taking control of the problem, writing a stress diary, time management, enough rest, and sleep, eating a balanced diet, researching, and seeking professional help. Sleep deprivation can be stressful and it can become a vicious cycle, interrupting your sleeping pattern. Learn ways to enjoy a good night sleep by taking relaxation techniques such as taking a warm bath, learning yoga, reading the Bible or something inspiring, watching inspirational videos on Youtube, viewing your family album, having a warm bath, drinking a glass of milk before bed time, and learning breathing exercises. Avoid anything with caffeine or alcohol before bed time, and stay away from gadgets and electronic devices at least an hour before you sleep. Communicating your problems can help in unleashing your burden and stress, so one of the best ways to lighten or eliminate your stress is to talk to someone like your spouse, to a trusted friend, a family member, or better yet to a professional counselor who can be objective in his responses and can give you a sound advice on stress management techniques.
A stress diary is a good and effective stress management tool allowing you to release the tension from your body by becoming aware of the events or situations leading to your stress. In your stress diary, write down your feelings and emotions of the stressful episode and don’t forget to take note of the date, time, and location of each stressful situation and also write the persons you were with and what you were doing at that time. Instead of being negative and thinking the bad side, divert your stress in more productive and meaningful activities. Do not hesitate to contact a professional online counselor for a more personalized approach to handling your stress.
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